Many of us probably weren’t too excited about returning to campus for three long weeks of finals. Personally, I dragged myself back after stuffing my face with mashed potatoes and pecan pie over Thanksgiving weekend. And sure, between 20-page essays and chaotic group projects, the grind feels endless. But it’s also December—which signals the holiday season. That’s the official excuse to splurge on overpriced hot chocolate, curl up with Vlogmas marathons, and panic-order a reindeer onesie in time for SantaCon. It’s also the moment to pull out your Christmas tree, Hanukkah bush, or even a festive succulent and bring a bit of cheer to your space.
Now, anyone can dive into these seasonal rituals, but the holidays hold a special spark for couples. After all, what’s more romantic than an entire month centered around showing affection for the people you care about? From shared lights displays to cozy nights indoors, this stretch of the year practically writes its own love story.
And since I’m chronically single, I figure that makes me a solid authority on identifying the best activities for couples in New York City. After years of observing from the sidelines, I’ve learned what moments actually make the season memorable for two people. So here it is my go-to guide for couples looking to create sparks that last beyond the mistletoe :
Glide Across the Ice at Rockefeller Center
It’s practically impossible to think of a New York City Christmas without this landmark rink. It’s the stage where Buddy confessed his feelings to Jovie, where Kevin finally reunited with his mom, and even where Holden Caulfield hit his breaking point after Sally refused to run away with him—#relatable on so many levels. Few places carry such layered pop culture history, yet still feel personal when you step onto the ice.
Skating here with your partner transforms into something beyond a casual winter outing. Glide in circles, attempt playful spins, or stumble together while holding hands—it’s all part of the charm. And if you’ve got a hockey background, the exaggerated stops and sprays of ice might just impress your date more than any carefully rehearsed move.
Timing makes all the difference. After 5 p.m. on a weekend, the rink shines under twinkling lights against the backdrop of the towering tree. The chill in the air sharpens the moment, giving you the sense that you’re living inside a holiday film. Crowds will always be present, but honestly, that only adds to the atmosphere—you’ll feel like part of the season’s grand story.
Splurge on Holiday Cheer at a Christmas Market
These festive bazaars may trace their roots back to Dresden and Vienna, but New York has given them its own flair—because if there’s one thing this city embraces, it’s the chance to turn browsing into a full-blown shopping spree. Bryant Park, Union Square, and Columbus Circle each transform into seasonal playgrounds where holiday spirit comes wrapped in the scent of mulled cider and the sound of carolers echoing between stalls.
The offerings are as whimsical as they are questionable: sample a flight of twelve different pickles, nibble on camel milk cheese, or take home a candle that suspiciously smells like tuna casserole. Half the fun is surrendering to the absurdity and leaning into the indulgence. After all, these markets aren’t about practicality—they’re about experience.
And yes, the prices will make you pause. Twenty dollars for a grilled cheese? Thirteen bucks for a tiny horchata topped with toasted marshmallow? Absolutely. Consider it part of the season’s charm. In this city, thriftiness can wait until January. During December, spending with reckless cheer feels like its own holiday tradition—and one that vendors will happily toast you for supporting.
Stroll Through Dazzling Holiday Window Displays
A December walk through Midtown means crossing paths with the elaborate displays of Saks Fifth Avenue, Bergdorf Goodman, and Macy’s. These storefronts are less about merchandise and more about spectacle—moving sets, glowing lights, and designs so over-the-top they stop traffic on the sidewalk. They’re free entertainment with a side of temptation, practically daring you to wander inside.
Once indoors, the glamour only intensifies. You’ll find yourself wandering through the polished aisles of Louis Vuitton, Burberry, and Cartier. Playfully suggest that your partner try on the Gucci Jackie bag she’s been eyeing, then nod in agreement that it suits her perfectly. Later, you can hand her a cheeky canvas tote with a pun like “You’re my butter half,” proving romance doesn’t always need a platinum price tag.
And don’t think this holiday ritual is reserved for couples. Singles are more than welcome to soak in the glow of Midtown lights and department store pageantry. Rally your friends, zip up your puffers—or flaunt a wool coat if you’re aiming for international-student chic—and join the festive crowds. Who knows, you might just find yourself under a sprig of mistletoe at Amity Hall. As for me, I’ll be wrapped in burgundy, savoring my Bonne Maman advent calendar, and reminding myself that holiday joy isn’t exclusive to two.
